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Is Your Aging Parent Hesitant About Memory Care? How to Start the Conversation

Is Your Aging Parent Hesitant About Memory Care? How to Start the Conversation

Senior woman with her granddaughter

Caring for an aging parent, especially one dealing with memory loss, can be a major responsibility. As the disease progresses, you may no longer be capable of caring for them on your own. That being said, you want what’s best for them, but broaching the subject of memory care can be difficult. However, if your loved one’s Alzheimer’s or dementia symptoms are becoming increasingly worse, it’s essential to have the conversation sooner rather than later. At Sunol Creek, we specialize in providing focused memory care for seniors in San Dimas, West Covina, and the surrounding area. 

Starting the conversation about memory care requires empathy, understanding, and patience. Here are some tips to help you navigate this sensitive topic with your parent:

1. Choose the Right Time and Place

First of all, it is important to note that when and where you have the conversation matters. Be sure to find a quiet, comfortable setting where you can have an open and honest conversation without distractions. We strongly recommend having this conversation at home and not in a public setting. 

Additionally, avoid bringing up the topic during stressful times or when your parent is already feeling overwhelmed. If your parent has begun exhibiting mild signs and symptoms of dementia, you will want to keep in mind what time of day when they feel their best and are at their sharpest. For example, if they experience sundowning, it will be better to talk earlier in the day.

2. Approach with Empathy

Secondly, it is important to understand that your parent may be resistant to the idea of moving to memory care. Approach the conversation with empathy, acknowledging their feelings and concerns. Keep in mind that this is a big and life-changing transition and it’s only natural that they might feel some apprehension at the idea. When this happens, be sure to let them know that you’re here to support them and ensure they receive the care they need.

3. Listen to Their Concerns

It is imperative that you give your parent the opportunity to express their fears, worries, and questions about memory care. Listen actively and validate their feelings. After all, everyone wants to feel seen and heard. Take the time to assure them that you’ll address any concerns they may have and involve them in the decision-making process. 

If they have a series of questions and concerns but you don’t immediately have an answer, write them down. Make a list and then circle back another day to talk again. Do your research, find out answers, and bring back reassurances. 

4. Highlight the Benefits of Memory Care

Keep the conversation positive and use this as a time to highlight what they might look forward to once they transition to a memory care for seniors. Educate your parent about the benefits of memory care, such as specialized care from trained professionals, a safe and secure environment, and engaging activities tailored to their interests and abilities.

Below are a few of the services and amenities that residents enjoy most at Sunol Creek:

Life Enrichment Program:

At Sunol Creek, our LifeCycles Wellness Program is designed to add joy and fulfillment to every day. We offer a wide range of engaging activities and outings tailored to residents’ interests and passions. From arts and crafts to cooking classes, movie nights, and outdoor excursions, there’s always something exciting happening at our community!

Floor Plan Options:

We understand that each resident has unique needs and preferences, which is why we offer a variety of floor plan options to suit different lifestyles. Whether your loved one prefers a private or companion room, they’ll find a comfortable and inviting living space at Sunol Creek.

Exceptional Services:

Our commitment to exceptional memory care extends to our on-site health services. With a Director of Nursing overseeing our 24/7 care staff, physician oversight, experienced caregivers, and medication technicians, residents receive the highest quality of care. We also provide on-site physical, occupational, and speech therapy, as well as assistance with telemedicine appointments, ensuring that residents’ health needs are met comprehensively.

Wellness Focus:

At Sunol Creek, we believe in nurturing the four dimensions of whole-person wellness: social, spiritual, intellectual, and physical. Our wellness program includes fitness classes, healthful dining options, and regular resident assessments to promote overall well-being. Additionally, our staff members are trained to provide compassionate care that addresses residents’ emotional and spiritual needs, fostering a sense of purpose and belonging.

Supportive Community Environment:

Sunol Creek is more than just a memory care community—it’s a welcoming home where residents can feel cared for, engaged, and supported. Our warmhearted staff members are dedicated to creating a nurturing environment where residents feel valued and respected. Whether it’s through comfortable routines, personalized care plans, or meaningful interactions, we strive to make every day special for those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia.

By highlighting these specific benefits of Sunol Creek, you can reassure your parent that they’ll receive exceptional care and support in our memory care community. If you’re ready to explore all that our community has to offer, we invite you to schedule a tour and experience our community firsthand.

5. Take a Tour of a Memory Care Community

Consider scheduling a tour of a memory care community like Sunol Creek. Seeing the amenities, meeting the staff, and experiencing the supportive environment firsthand can help alleviate any concerns your parent may have. Our community offers exceptional on-site health services, a well-rounded wellness program, and personalized care to meet the unique needs of each resident.

At Sunol Creek, we believe in adding joy to every day for those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia. Our professional staff is dedicated to helping residents live life fully, with a focus on nurturing the four dimensions of whole-person wellness: social, spiritual, intellectual, and physical. We provide a safe and secure environment with features like outdoor courtyards, cozy living spaces, and engaging activities.

If you’re ready to learn more about our Sunol Creek memory care for seniors or schedule a tour of our community, contact us today. We’re here to help you and your loved one navigate this journey with compassion and support.

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